Here’s what to expect during our wedding celebrations at Brenaissance Wine & Stud Estate. Please note that timings are subject to small changes, but this should help you plan your days. We’re so excited to share this special time with you!
09:00–16:00 – Arrival, check-in at Brenaissance (for on-site guests) and relax 🛎️☀️
For guests arriving on the Qatar Airways (QR 1369) or Norse Atlantic (Z0 795) flights: as part of the group transfer from Cape Town International Airport to Brenaissance Wine & Stud Estate, your driver will meet you in the arrivals hall. They will be holding a welcome sign reading “Joely and Ben’s Wedding Party.”
Vegan Guests:
At the pizza evening, please speak directly to the chefs to request your vegan pizza. You’ll receive a full pizza prepared especially for you.
We recommend guests have lunch before arriving at the venue. The wedding party (groomsmen and bridesmaids) will be provided lunch as they’ll be helping us get ready. For everyone else, Stellenbosch has some lovely cafés just a short Uber away.
Please note: we kindly ask that no photos or mobile phones are used during the ceremony. We’d love everyone to be fully present with us, and our photographer and videographer will capture everything for you to enjoy later. After the ceremony, you’re welcome to take as many photos and videos as you like!
Vegan Guests:
Our chefs will be preparing a special selection of vegan canapés. During the canapé service, please ask the waiting staff to request your plate directly from the chefs. The waiting staff will bring you a side plate with your vegan selection prepared especially for you. These canapés will not be served alongside the main selection to ensure they’re reserved just for you.
The same applies to the vegan desserts, which will be served as a plated option. Please request these from any waiting staff on the evening.
Franschhoek Wine Tram:
Some of you have shown interest in the Franschhoek Wine Tram on this day. While Joely and I won’t be hopping on, we can wholeheartedly recommend it! Just make sure you’re back at the venue in time for the 17:30 transfer to Cucina di Giovanni at Eikendal so we can all roll out together. Cheers! 🍷
If you’d like to experience the wine tram, we’d recommend the Navy Line, which can be booked here. You should book in advance as it gets very busy!
Luggage Allowance:
We can’t wait to celebrate with you all across these incredible few days!
We’re so excited to experience the Mother city with you! Below is a general outline of our time in Cape Town, including activities we’ve booked and group-friendly restaurant suggestions.
We’ve already booked all of the activities linked below. If you’d like to join us, you’re welcome to book directly with the suppliers for the same time slots—just follow the links provided.
While we’ll do our best to stick together, there’s no guarantee we’ll be on the same group or tour, especially for things like the catamaran cruise and paragliding. If there’s someone you’d like to be on a tour with, we recommend coordinating directly with each other or reaching out to the supplier to request being added to the same group.
10:00 – Depart from Aquila Game Reserve to Cape Town
For those who have booked a transfer, please meet in Aquila’s reception by 9:45am. The driver will drop you off at your respective accommodation in Cape Town.
13:00 – 16:00 – Check-in & Relax
Arrive at your accommodation, check in, and take some time to relax.
16:00 – Early dinner at Ginja Restaurant 🍷Two-course set menu at R350 per person, with a R175 deposit per person already paid. Eating early to ensure we do not miss the sunset cruise! Main course options include:
Fish & Chips
Beef Short Rib
Ginja Chicken
Butternut Ravioli (V)
Portobellini Ramen (VG)
Followed by desserts including Apple Tarte Fine, Crème Caramel, or Bread and Butter Pudding. Table booked for 29.
•08:00 – Full-day tour including:
•🗺️ Cape Point & Cape of Good Hope
•🏞️ Chapman’s Peak Drive
•🐧 Boulders Beach Penguins
•🏖️ Muizenberg Beach
•👉 Book Tour: Cape of Good Hope and Penguin Colony Tour
•💡 Don’t forget to check what’s included and whether there are any extra entrance fees
•📍 Pickup time and location will be confirmed by the tour provider after you book directly
• 🧘 Joely & Ben will be relaxing this day, but we’ll be heading to Time Out Market for dinner on the evening —feel free to join if you’re around and not too tired!
•19:30 – Food and drinks at Time Out Market🍽️
No reservation needed—drop by whenever works for you!
•05:30 – Lion’s Head Sunrise Hike
•👉 Book Hike: Lion’s Head Sunrise/Sunset Hike
•💡 Wear good walking shoes and bring water, a jacket, and your camera! A guide is strongly recommended due to the steep terrain and rocky sections, especially in the dark.
•📍 Meeting point details provided upon booking
•🧍♂️ Ben & Joely might skip this one as they’ve done it before—but it’s a must-do if you haven’t yet!
•11:00 – Tandem Paragliding from Signal Hill 🪂
📍 Arrive by 10:30 at Signal Hill Rd car park
👉 Book Here: Tandem Paragliding
•🧍♂️Ben & Joely will definitely be doing this one!
•From 14:00 – Chill time at Camps Bay Beach and Tidal Pool 🏖️Bring swimwear, towels and sunscreen. Sunbeds and umbrellas are available for a small fee, and cash is recommended. There are changing facilities by the Tidal Pool, which is the side of the beach we’ll try to stay closest to as it’s much warmer than the Atlantic sea. We’ll add a what3words location into the group chat when we arrive so you can join us. We’ll be there from approx. 2pm, so feel free to join anytime.
•18:00 – Dinner at Tiger Market Camps Bay 🍹
Table booked for 20
•19:30 – Watch the sunset by the beach
•20:30 – Drinks and live music at Mojo Market 🎶(No reservation needed!)
•22:00 – Farewell hugs all around! 💛
If you’re extending your trip, here are some incredible experiences to consider:
🌄 Active Adventures
🥾 Lion’s Head Sunset Hike – A local favourite with stunning golden-hour views
🏄♂️ Paddle Boarding at the V&A – Glide through the waterfront with Table Mountain as your backdrop
🚁 Helicopter Ride – Soar above the city, mountains, and coastline for epic views
🦈 Shark Cage Diving (Best in their winter) – Adrenaline meets nature in Gansbaai (pronounce Hans-baai)
🎭 Culture & History
🚢 Robben Island Tour – Visit the historic site where Nelson Mandela was imprisoned
🎨 Bo-Kaap Cultural Tour – Discover Cape Town’s colourful, storied neighbourhood
🍽️ Food & Wine
🍽️ Gold Restaurant – A vibrant pan-African dining experience with drumming and dance
🍇 Wine Tasting in Stellenbosch, Franschhoek, or Paarl – Discover world-class wines and stunning vineyard scenery
🚋 Franschhoek Wine Tram – Hop between vineyards in style (and slightly tipsy!) 🍷
🛍️ Souvenirs
🛍️ The Watershed at the V&A – Beautiful local crafts, fashion, and gifts from talented South African makers
🌿 Scenic Escapes
🚗 The Garden Route – A legendary coastal road trip featuring beaches, forests, wildlife, and charming towns
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